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2023年5月2日 10：00
1、不要作，不要依赖。
2、独立女性的处事方式就是遇事不慌，理性思考解决问题的方法。
3、婚姻中的大忌就是情绪化的发泄抱怨，不解决任何问题还有损爱。
4、如果对对方不满意，要心平气和的告诉他。他能改就表扬，不能改，要不忍，要不滚。
千万不要发挥控制欲指责对方，当对方指责你的时候，不需要也说对方的不好，只需要冷静的问对方:对你说的问题，如果我能改自然我会变成你希望的样子，我现在的问题是，如果我不愿意改或者我尽力了还是改不了呢？我是不是需要做好自己离开的准备? 然后自己冷静下来想想自己是否有必要改。 如果不想改， 就准备分手好了。
5、夫妻千万不用为了钱吵架，钱是挣出来的，不是吵出来的。婚姻中必须要有一些存款以备急用。
6、一定要拥有自己能够挣钱的能力。家里的事情，如果想法不一致，两个人可以一起列利弊的条款，最后选择利大于弊的方案。
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Sister Fox Marriage Proverbs
1. Don’t pretend, don’t depend.
2. The way independent women deal with things is not to panic when things happen, but to think rationally and solve problems.
3. The big taboo in marriage is emotional venting and complaining, not solving any problems and damaging love.
4. If you are unhappy with your partner, tell him calmly. Praise him if he can change, but if he can’t change, you have to bear it or get out.
Don’t use control to accuse your partner. When he accuses you, you don’t need to say his bad, just ask him calmly: If I can change the problem you said, I will become you Hope, my question now is, if I am not willing to change or if I try my best but still can’t change?
Do I need to prepare myself to leave? Then calm down and think about whether I need to change. If you don’t want to change, you’re ready to break up.
5. Husband and wife should never quarrel over money. Money is earned, not quarreled. Marriage must have some savings for emergencies.
6. You must have the ability to make money yourself. For family matters, if you have different ideas, two people can list the pros and cons together, and finally choose the solution that has more advantages than disadvantages.
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